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DAC visits IDP camp in Abuja

I lack words to express my gratitude and excitement at the just concluded demystify abuse campaign outing in Abuja.

We wouldn’t have been able to record such an success if it wasn’t for all the persons who showed us maximum support and for other foundations who rallied round to ensure a beautiful and fulfilling day at Internally Displaced Camp (IDP), new Kuchingoro, Abuja, Nigeria. Continue reading “DAC visits IDP camp in Abuja”

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Demystify Abuse Campaign Goes To Abuja

Displaced-PersonsThe need to go to IDP camps with #DemystifyAbuse campaign arose when I kept hearing of the constant rape and sexual abuse faced by most Nigerians who found themselves at these camps.
I may not have all the money in the world, but I live comfortably in a house that has a roof, I wear clothes that fit me perfectly and I get to eat food WHENEVER I am hungry,.
Most importantly I HAVE HOPE – hope for what tomorrow. and for a better life.

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Demystify Abuse, Opinions

I heard Demeaning Voices

I heard demeaning voicesThere are limiting voices that come at us from left, right and center, these voices are often demeaning and annoying.

These voices are known for making us look inferior, damaged or incomplete to our own selves.

These voice would give you a million and one reasons why you cannot.

Below is a comment I made on his post and I hope it helps you go achieve all you plan, dream, hope to achieve in spite of those damned voices that tell you, you can’t do this, or do that… Continue reading “I heard Demeaning Voices”

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Demystify Abuse Goes To Lagos

We are excited to announce that #DemystifyAbuse took the train to Lagos and we visited Ajigbeda Senior Girls High School, Iyun road, Surulere, Lagos, Nigeria.
Cynthia Omo a survivor shared her story, after which books were given to the students and teachers. It was a fulfilling day as some of the students came forward to speak up on their own experiences.
pictures can be seen HERE
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The Success Of DACGoesToSchool

On the 13th of February, 2017 the #DemystifyAbuse team recorded another milestone as one of her pet projects Demystify Abuse Campaign Goes To School truly went to school, not to learn, but to make impact.

After the success of the maiden edition of the campaign was recorded, read here

We made an announcement that #DACGoesToSchool would commence and donations and sponsorship were solicited, many people came to our rescue, some made cash donations, some gave clothes and some others donated stationery.

We went to the school, Government Secondary School, Elekahia, (UBE).  Continue reading “The Success Of DACGoesToSchool”

Demystify Abuse, Survivors Corner

When A Father Slut-Shames His Daughter


“I remember when I was staying with my biological father. My cousins came around. Popsy said they should bring an extra bed to my room for one of them to crash.

The guy woke up at night, put a hand across my mouth and was trying to force my legs apart. He said he will kill me if I screamed or said a word.

I was calm. As he struggled to pull my pant I told him I wanted to pee. After much deliberation he let me go to pee. I remained in the bathroom till morning when my dad wanted to pee. He asked why I was locked in the bathroom by 4 am and I told him what happened. He said it was my fault… Why would I wear nightie. I didn’t even have boobs then. Continue reading “When A Father Slut-Shames His Daughter”